Children watch and learn from the important people in their
lives. Given recent events in our country, and throughout the world, it is more
important than ever that we raise children who are empathetic and practice
compassion every day.
As a
teacher, I see examples every day where I wish a student acted more
compassionately. Can I teach a child how to be empathetic? Isn’t compassion
something that can best be learned through life experience, not direct
instruction?
The answer
is a resounding YES! Compassion can be taught, but it is up to all of the
adults in your child’s life to show
them how to act with empathy!
Every year I
read the book Wonder to my class,
which really makes you understand how it feels to be judged and bullied for
something totally out of your control. And the book serves as a good touch
point throughout the year. When a child acts thoughtlessly, I bring up
characters and situations from the book to help them understand how they should
have behaved.
Research shows that empathetic behavior can be learned
throughout your life. This means that our job, as role models for our children,
is to:
1)
Walk the talk – show
compassion in your everyday actions
2)
Outlaw name-calling
3)
Give consequences for
poor behavior
4)
Use manners – please,
thank you, hold doors
5)
Be understanding of
other’s mistakes
6)
Recognize kindness
7)
Volunteer
For our
compassion project this year, fourth grade is undertaking a holiday sale to
benefit the Hesed House in Aurora. The Hesed House is a place that houses and
feeds homeless families. We are raising money for important items needed by
these families: socks, shoes, diapers, cold weather clothes, and the like. In
the spring, we will hold a “make sale” where we make items to sell in order to
supply one family from Hesed House with a “move out” box, which can be used
when the family is able to leave the shelter and move into their own place.
The only way our kids can learn how to behave with
compassion is if we show them by example each and every day!
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